✨ Truth 1: Kinky Wellness is not that scary or hard to get into once you know your basics.
Despite what you may have heard about BDSM + Kink, and Kinky Wellness in general, there is nothing wrong with you for wanting to participate. Kinky Wellness is as natural as nature. We all are kinky in some way.
However, taking your first step into Kinky Wellness does require you to know the three primary basics of BDSM and Kink.
✔️ Partnership Basic
✔️ Impact Basic
✔️ Plan and Prep Basics
Knowing each of these three basics can give you a foundation to sit on while you dip your toes in or be a platform to jump from when you’re ready to make a splash.
✨Truth 2: Kinky Wellness is a healthy outlet for Aggression, Imagination, and Attention, or #AIA for short, and without a healthy outlet for each, self-development is not possible.
✔️ Aggression is a natural emotion that reveals itself when we need to defend ourselves. It is what fuels self-ownership and #courage. Although Aggression should never get out of hand, it should never disappear either.
✔️ Imagination bridges the gap to the other parts of ourselves. Imagination is what allows us to create, problem-solve, and innovate. Without Imagination, we lose our ability to think outside the box, leaving us feeling stuck.
✔️And the type of Attention we receive has the power to build us up or tear us down. Asking for a specific kind of Attention on a need-to-need basis can build cathartic, healing, and expansive experiences.
✨Truth 3: The power of Kinky Wellness is intentionally being hidden.
Although no sex-education will ever be perfect, we can not keep eliminating the mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of sex, because it is within these three elements that makes sex so powerful and healing to begin with.